What You Tolerate, You Choose

You didn't end up here by accident.

The unfulfilling job.
The habit you keep saying you'll break.
The conversation you've been putting off for months.

Nobody forced those things on you.
Life just made staying quiet feel easier than speaking up.

But silence is still a choice.

There's a version of staying stuck that doesn't feel like a decision.
It feels like patience, or wisdom, or waiting for the right moment.
And sometimes it is.
But if you're honest with yourself, you know the difference between waiting on God and hiding from growth.

Imagine a farmer who walks his field every morning, surveys the dry ground, and prays for a harvest.

He prays with real faith. Real sincerity. Real hope.
But he never plants a seed.

God honors trust, but He also honors movement.
Faith isn't passive.
It's the courage to act before you can see the full picture.

You don't need to see the whole road. You just need to take the next step.

Scripture puts it plainly: "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." (Ephesians 2:10)

You were not created to observe your life from a safe distance.
You were shaped for something.
Wired for growth.
Built with a purpose that doesn't shrink to fit your comfort zone.

And yes, change is uncomfortable. It's messy.
It asks things of you that staying the same never would.

But staying the same actually has a cost:
A slow, quiet drift away from the person you were always meant to become.

What you're not changing, you're choosing.

That isn't meant to shame you.
It's meant to wake something up in you.

So here's the question worth sitting with today:

What is one thing you've been tolerating that you know, deep down, needs to change?

Not ten things. One.

Maybe it's your health.
Maybe it's a relationship that's been running on empty for years.
Maybe it's a dream you've shelved so long it's started to collect dust.

You don't have to overhaul your life today.

Send the email.
Make the call.
Say the thing you've been holding back.

Small, faithful steps are still steps.

God doesn't ask you to have it all figured out.
He asks you to move, and He promises to meet you in the motion.

You are not a victim of your circumstances.
You are a person with the Spirit of God living inside of you, and that changes everything.

The life you keep waiting for starts with a choice you make today.